Before this single mom adventure moved forward, I needed to find a new place to live. Somewhere me and my future kid would be comfortable. As much as I loved being downtown, my loft living situation wasn't conducive to a new addition. I mean, the only doors in the apartment were the main one and the door to the bathroom. So I started looking for an apartment with more doors; a two bedroom.
For those who aren't aware, rent in Los Angeles is completely insane. During my search for a new pad, I realized renting a two bedroom flat would cost more monthly than a mortgage for a condo or small house. Seriously. THEN I added up all the rent checks I've written since moving to LA. Get ready. No, really hold on to your hats -- I've paid (or rather flushed) almost $150,000 in rent in the last 10 years. Are you kidding me?! I could have equity in a property. After seeing the numbers, I couldn't deny the best choice was for me to buy my first house.
After working with a super-awesome realtor, Shannon Shue, and looking at what seemed like a hundred houses, I finally found my home! A cute bungalow: 2 bedrooms with a den, garage, a grapefruit AND lemon tree in the backyard. I moved in Dec 9, 2016.
With a roof for me and my future kid checked off the list, my sperm donor research began. Medical records, physical features, ethnic origin, ancestry, educational level, vile type, blood type, religion - a ton of information to go through. It was really overwhelming.
In the middle of it all, I had a mini a-ha moment: shortly before and once I got pregnant, I wouldn't be dating anymore for who knows how long. With that realization, I figured it wouldn't hurt to go on a few last dates before my single mom life started to unfold. I signed up for Tinder. I figured I'd "soft date" as a friend of mine calls it. Soft dating doesn't include all the juicy stuff like sex, meeting friends or family. Just basic surface level stuff for fun.

Remember when I said I was going on my last few dates? Well, that ended up being true, but just not in the way I expected. I met someone. On Tinder. The guy who is totally my person. Ari. Guess what? On November 9, 2017, he asked me to marry him. I said, "Yes!" Actually I said, "Hell yes!" The big day is set for March 25, 2018. I can't wait to see what the Universe has in store for us.
Wow Jennifer! Congrats! What an incredible turn of events!
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